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Another link I’m not sending you

In Uncategorized on August 20, 2009 at 3:38 pm

The Ballad of G. I. Joe

Forcing Three Dog Night to reunite is classic.


Jinx (buy me a coke)

In Uncategorized on August 19, 2009 at 6:27 pm

Oh God, I blogged about your gchat usage, and now I’ve jinxed it.  You haven’t been on gchat (that I’ve seen) since last Friday, or updated your FB status, either.  You know how a lack of information drives me crazy!!

I hope you’re relaxing on a sandy beach somewhere with a fruity drink.  Although it’s unusual that you’re not posting FB mobile updates if you’re on vacation.  Hmm, very mysterious.

It makes me unreasonably happy to see you on gchat

In Uncategorized on August 13, 2009 at 4:14 pm

I like knowing where you are and what you’re doing.  But not in a creepy “Every Breath You Take” kind of way!  How do I explain it?

There’s a possibility of connecting when we’re both active.  With the simple touch of a button, we could be interacting.  It’s easier than texting, with more give and take than e-mail, but less intimate than a phone call.  IMing allows for a certain boldness.

Plus, every time you update your gchat message, it seems like you’re communicating with me.  It’s much better than FB, where nearly 200 people see your status updates.  It’s sooo tempting to talk to you.  But I’m sticking to my guns (for the moment).

I love sharing things with you

In Uncategorized on August 13, 2009 at 1:28 am

I really want to forward this to you!

Maybe this has been so hard for me (in part) because I crave that interaction between us.  I was trying to maintain it, a little, for the past few months, but why?  I want more than *just* that.

Thought of you when I saw these…

In Uncategorized on August 11, 2009 at 8:07 pm

Given your newfound Lady GaGa appreciation, you’d probably think it was a fun association.


I miss our nights of DVD watching/dessert eating!  I remember the time you had my vanilla ice-cream sandwich already waiting in the freezer — such a sweet gesture.

I have this crazy urge to invite you to the movies tonight

In Uncategorized on August 11, 2009 at 1:54 pm

Moon is still showing at the same theatre.  You turned me down when I invited you on July 20th.  I have no reason to think you’d say yes tonight, except if you had a wild hare.

Inviting you on a date doesn’t exactly jibe with my whole “don’t initiate contact” plan, though.

What I’d be posting to your FB status if I was allowing myself to comment…

In Uncategorized on August 10, 2009 at 8:46 am

You might enjoy this blog, which recaps the “gaudiest” moments of each week’s True Blood episode.  I can’t read it because I don’t have HBO; I have to wait for the DVDs to be released.

Some Rules

In Uncategorized on August 9, 2009 at 7:06 pm

1.  Never mention to you how long it’s been since we last saw each other (over 7 weeks).  I can keep track for myself, but never, ever mention it to you.

2. Don’t initiate contact with you any more.  Don’t comment on Facebook status updates.  Don’t e-mail.  If I must, I can write you an e-mail, but I can’t send it.  Don’t text, *especially* when I’ve been drinking.  (Does this mean I need to stop drinking??)

3. If I have something to say to you, say it here.  That’s why I started this blog, after all.  I don’t quite understand why I haven’t used it.

4. Try to be okay with the idea that you don’t want me in your life.